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Tuesday 30 January 2024

Birth rates hang on nations' spiritual horizons

Young people don't want to share their life with children.
Europe and the United States have resorted to high immigration to prevent slow national death. Countries such as China, Korea and Japan, suffering similar — or more sickly — birthrates, have not had recourse to such a measure. But that said there is a common thread linking those countries that cannot persuade its couples to have more than one child, even to marry.

That thread is the consumerist belief system of young people around the world, as Michael Cook writes on his Mercator website:

Fundamentally, the reason for the decline [in the birth rate] is the same everywhere – the younger generation has no spiritual horizons. Even the Chinese, who are not religious in a Western sense, used to believe in the duty of filial piety of perpetuating the family line [...]. But now, it seems, they are thoroughly materialistic in their outlook.
It is becoming clearer and clearer that it is only in communities with deeply-rooted religious convictions that a pro-natalist outlook can take root. Just look at the Amish or Salafist Muslims or ultra-Orthodox Jews, or various communities of Catholics and Protestants.
Of course, gender equality, government support for families, flexible work schedules and so forth will help boost fertility at the margins. But for reasons which remain mysterious, religious convictions give couples an optimistic outlook on life which promotes large families. So if President Xi is truly determined to elevate “love and marriage, fertility and family” amongst Chinese women, he ought to ditch Marxist dialectical materialism. Will he? Of course not. But he will have to live with the fact that, in the words of one Chinese demographer, “China Is Dying Out”. 

The comforts of consumerism, the learned habit of evading circumstances that require sacrifice of self in terms of time, effort, or discipline — these are the fruit of the mentality, even ideology, that has taken hold of many societies, manifest by the slump in the willingness to serve others through volunteering, as for example in Australia, England, and the United States.

Further, the vague spirituality that the growing numbers of "Nones" claim offers no escape from a bland and superficial perspective concerning social roles and meaning in life. The unfortunate result is that young and old find themselves in the prison of despair, a "Slough of Despond" in the wider religious sense, leading to increases in suicide (about a 10 percent increase in Australia between 2013 and 2022; and see here; and a 16 per cent rise in the US between 2011 and 2022). 

Each society, therefore, is challenged to restore what has been lost among its people and find the source of a meaningful and fulfilling life that taps into our transcendental reality rather than a mere desire for self-invention.

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Wednesday 24 January 2024

Allowing distractions is not the way to cope

Johannes Schwarz says Mass in the Syrian desert on his walking pilgrimage to Jerusalem
In our times it's worth examining a statement from an outstanding thinker whose perspective on the human condition benefits from his being removed from the tribulations of this confused era. One highly relevant insight of this kind comes from Blaise Pascal, and it's this:

“All of humanity's problems stem from each person's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” 

The implications of this for us today are central to the human project, says Johannes Schwarz, who has lived largely as a hermit in the Italian Alps for the past eight years. This Catholic priest has launched a series of monthly video accounts of his daily life that include his artistic endeavours as well as the mundane tending his small house and garden, and he is an adept observer of the natural world around his mountain-top vantage-point.

He takes from Pascal the warning that "through the constant pursuit of distractions we are in danger of not knowing ourselves, living life superficially, avoiding the deeper reality, the deeper questions".

Schwarz's reflection on the condition of what is the condition of most people on the planet, given during his January video, starts with Pascal's challenge: 

“All of humanity's problems stem from each person's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” 

This loose quote from Blaise Pascal, the 17th century French thinker, physicist and brilliant mathematician, pops up on social media walls occasionally. It comes from his Pensées (number 139), fragmentary thoughts penned without ever being arranged into the intended larger work.

What Pascal meant was that we seek distractions. These distractions we find necessary, because otherwise the gravity of our situation — “the natural poverty of our feeble and mortal condition”, he calls it — would oppress us too greatly. And thus we flee into the noise and drown out the unpleasant side of reality. Pascal does not write this with scorn. He was understanding. He must have been. His relatively short life was shaped by the Thirty Years' War, one of the longest and most destructive conflicts on the European continent. Distraction was a way to cope. 

So what does he think the problem is? The first, surely, is that through the constant pursuit of distractions we are in danger of not knowing ourselves, living life superficially, avoiding the deeper reality, the deeper questions. And it all gets worse, says Pascal, if we mistake the distractions for sources of true happiness.

We imagine, he says, the possession of the objects of our quests will really make us happy. Yet we eventually attain what we seek and soon find we are still unhappy. The bigger house did not change our internal state. The promotion did not produce lasting contentment. A relationship that promised joy, also comes with demands. We want to be at rest and are ever restless. There is something insatiable in our pursuit. There is something insatiable in the nature of our desire. 

Some see in this nothing but a “drive”, an evolutionary force that once propelled us forward —  whatever “forward” is supposed to mean in a blind, meaningless cosmos. It holds, now that our minds perceive it, only empty promises and despair. Distractions to the rescue.  

Others would say with Pascal that we seek rest as by a “secret instinct, a remnant of the greatness of our original nature, which teaches that happiness in reality consists only in rest, and not in stir.” Augustine a millennium earlier had famously written: “Restless is our heart until it rests in you, O Lord”. Or as Pascal says elsewhere: “What does this craving, and this helplessness, proclaim but that there was once in man a true happiness, of which all that now remains is the empty print and trace? This he tries in vain to fill with everything around him, seeking in things that are not there, the help he cannot find in those that are, though none can help, since this infinite abyss can be filled only with an infinite and immutable object; in other words, by God himself.” (425) Here it is: The famous “God-shaped hole” in man. 

That is why, says Pascal, we have difficulty sitting quietly in a room by ourselves.

But from what has been said it is clear that the point is not that we have to learn to sit quietly. The point is that we should perceive distractions as distractions and not let them overpower the more pertinent questions — questions that we will have to face if happiness and rest are not the ultimate illusion. 

So we are not confined to a room. We do not have to lock ourselves in. In fact, I personally have always found walking to be perfectly ordered to this pursuit. I find pilgrimages a great way to leave distractions and the noise behind. There are stages of such a journey. The first is physical, with pain and strain as the body adjusts. But over time, the physical aspect fades into the background.

Next, the mind begins to wander, thirsting for new impressions, encounters and discoveries. You may spend weeks sorting in your mind experiences and dialogues of the past. But eventually the rhythm of your steps slowly clears the mind. You find yourself getting more and more quiet. And at some point you'll stop talking to yourself and start listening.You'll find yourself "being" — being as you are. Once you've become quiet; once you simply "are", your hiking boots no longer matter. You have started on a journey inward. What will you find? Or whom?

  See also  Priest turns forsaken farm....

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Tuesday 9 January 2024

Surrogacy danger: Why the Pope is right

Men win case after mother refuses to give up child
In his New Year's address to diplomats at the Vatican, Pope Francis called for global action against human surrogate motherhood, saying it is a "grave violation of the dignity of the woman and the child". News media around the world gave some prominence to his concern. 

In this post I will show how the Pope's concerns are fully supported by human rights groups and feminists of the calibre of Renate Klein and June Bindel. 

The AFP agency's report of the Pope's call for action includes this:

In a speech dominated by calls for an end to conflicts around the world, the head of the worldwide Catholic Church said: "The path to peace calls for respect for life."

This began "with the life of the unborn child in the mother's womb, which cannot be suppressed or turned into an object of trafficking", he said.

"In this regard, I deem deplorable the practice of so-called surrogate motherhood, which represents a grave violation of the dignity of the woman and the child, based on the exploitation of situations of the mother's material needs.

"A child is always a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract. Consequently, I express my hope for an effort by the international community to prohibit this practice universally."

The Pope's words in full on this subject are these:

The path to peace calls for respect for life, for every human life, starting with the life of the unborn child in the mother’s womb, which cannot be suppressed or turned into an object of trafficking. In this regard, I deem deplorable the practice of so-called surrogate motherhood, which represents a grave violation of the dignity of the woman and the child, based on the exploitation of situations of the mother’s material needs. A child is always a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract.
Consequently, I express my hope for an effort by the international community to prohibit this practice universally. At every moment of its existence, human life must be preserved and defended; yet I note with regret, especially in the West, the continued spread of a culture of death, which in the name of a false compassion discards children, the elderly and the sick. 

Exponential growth but unethical all the same

The AFP notes that June 2022, the pope condemned surrogacy as an "inhuman" practice involving the exploitation of women, treating them solely as a "uterus for rent".

Whereas some countries have imposed limits on surrogacy, such as prohibiting women being hired by foreigners to produce a baby —India and Thailand are examples—the commercialisation of the practice has grown exponentially, sometimes under the cover of  "altruistic" surrogacy, whereby a woman gives birth to a baby on behalf of another woman or couple but no money changes hands, excluding for expenses, which item becomes the substitute fee for the trade. This is legal in countries including Belgium, the Netherlands, the UK, Canada, Brazil and Colombia.

Commercial surrogacy outright is permitted in some US states.

The Sojourners magazine has noted that the "Christian community, in general, is divided over the practice of gestational surrogacy and that faith leaders have some catching up to do when it comes to understanding reproductive technologies and articulating moral guidance".

“The fact that theological guidance on this is all over the map suggests that in a lot of our churches and seminaries, we’re not doing a lot of thinking about some of these issues in bioethics,” said Scott Rae, co-author of Outside the Womb: Moral Guidance for Assisted Reproduction, to Sojourners.

What the Pope is responding to has been the focus of women's groups for several years: "the objectification of women, the commodification of the new-born, the trafficking of human beings, and the violation of human dignity of the woman exploited as ‘surrogate mother’ and the child, thus undermining women’s and child's rights", according to the coalition of groups that made representations to the European Parliament in 2022. Coalition members are the European Women’s Lobby, European Network of Migrant Women, International Coalition Against Prostitution, and the International Coalition for the Abolition of Surrogate Motherhood.

Surrogacy: A Human Rights Violation by Renate Klein, a Swiss-born Australian academic, writer, publisher, and feminist health activist, contains the fruit of long study of the outcomes to women and children caught up in the commercialisation of reproduction. 

The book's publisher has this to say about its contents:

In Surrogacy: A Human Rights Violation Renate Klein details her objections to surrogacy by examining the short- and long-term harms done to the so-called surrogate mothers, egg providers and the female partner in a heterosexual commissioning couple. Klein also looks at the rights of children and compares surrogacy to (forced) adoption practices. She concludes that surrogacy, whether so-called altruistic or commercial can never be ethical. 

Feminist campaigns against idea of a 'right' to a baby 

Another prominent campaigner against surrogacy—based on her personal research—is British writer, journalist and feminist icon, Julie Bindel. Her research into how surrogacy affects Third World women as victims of contractors from the First World has given her the ability to speak knowledgeably to those in power about the social harm surrogacy promotes. See her account of the state of affairs in her contribution at the Conference for the International Abolition of Surrogacy in the French National Assembly. 

In her writing on the subject Bindel offers many insights into the social harm done by those involved in the commodification of human life:

More and more people around the world, from gay couples and heterosexuals with fertility struggles to well-off women who simply do not want to be burdened by pregnancy, are choosing to pay for surrogacy services as a way of accessing parenthood. With “my body, my choice” feminists enthusiastically embracing surrogacy as an act of empowerment and inclusion, the abusive practice of outsourcing pregnancy to underprivileged and marginalised women is becoming widely accepted, and even mainstream.

In public discussions about surrogacy, the hypothetical surrogate mother is always a healthy, happy, young woman who enjoys being pregnant and finds joy in helping an infertile couple have children. She gives birth to a healthy baby without any complications, hands the baby to its “legal” parents without any distress, and goes on her merry way.

Real life is rarely, if ever, this straightforward.

I’m sure there really are women who carry babies for their relatives, friends or even strangers without expecting anything in return and find the experience rewarding.

Yet the overwhelming majority of women who sign up to become a surrogate mother, including those in jurisdictions where commercial surrogacy is illegal, do so because of poverty – the surrogacy industry, in its entirety, is nothing but a reproductive brothel.

Supporters of surrogacy, just like supporters of prostitution, claim that monetary incentive does not equal coercion and that “womb work” is work like any other. But could growing new life in your womb, birthing that life with great risk to your own wellbeing, and then handing it over to the person who commissioned it ever be considered just another type of “work”?

Is the inside of a woman’s body really an acceptable workplace? Can a few atypical examples, where everyone, including the surrogate mother, gains from the experience, allow us to overlook the grave consequences of the commercialisation of wombs, for society in general and women in particular? 

Some years ago, during a research trip to California, I met a woman called Jayne.

She told me she once agreed to be a surrogate for a wealthy couple because she was trapped in an abusive marriage with a man in the army, and was desperate to earn some money and leave the house they shared in the military barracks. Treated appallingly from the outset, Jayne was banned from riding a bicycle, having sex, or attending medical appointments alone. She was told what to eat and drink.  All of this was written into a legal contract which included an instruction to give up the baby immediately – without ever even holding it. Jayne was also required to undergo a caesarean birth so that the child could be delivered on a date convenient to the commissioning parents.

 Untold stories of the 'cow on a farm'

“I felt like a cow on a farm,” she told me. “My body was not mine, it belonged to them. I honestly had never felt so powerless in my life.”

I met so many women, just like Jayne, who have been severely traumatised by their experience as surrogate mothers. Unfortunately, we rarely hear from them. The surrogacy industry and its many supporters focus their attention on the feelings and desires of “commissioning parents”, and fail to pay any attention to the suffering of the women who make it all possible.

People defend those renting wombs saying everyone has a “right” to parenthood. They ask, how can gay men have biological children if not through surrogacy? Wouldn’t it be homophobic to take this opportunity away from them? Also what about women who cannot carry a pregnancy to term for whatever reason, should they never experience motherhood?

Well, for everyone who has the means to pursue surrogacy, including gay couples, adoption is also an option.

Nobody has the right to a biological child, regardless of their sexuality or sex. The use of impoverished women’s bodies for the benefit and convenience of those claiming parenthood as “their human right” is anathema to women’s liberation.

Whether it is altruistic or for-profit, surrogacy is exploitation – it turns the female body into a commodity for hire. Those gushing about the joy surrogacy brings to the lives of commissioning parents, and claiming it is a “human right” to have a biological child, should take some time to consider the many wrongs being done to the women used as surrogates.

— From "Surrogacy: Human right, or just wrong?" Why do so many believe that it is a ‘right’ for anyone to have their own biological child? 

From the insights of the likes of Klein and Bindel, and activist groups like Stop Surrogacy Now, we can understand why Pope Francis is alarmed by the risks society is taking in this area. His call for the global abolition of surrogacy is an echo of his pointing to the risks humanity is taking by permitting the spread of nuclear weapons. Just as the second is widely seen as Doomsday material, so should the first be seen as laying the path to the utter degradation of humans and of our society as a whole. Slavery is another curse humans imposed on each other before realising the harm to society of the practice.

Real people, real damage to lives

I want to offer more information about the harm to mother and child that accompanies surrogacy.

The findings collected by the Stop Surrogacy Now organisation are definitive:

We are women and men of diverse ethnic, religious, cultural, and socio-economic backgrounds from all regions of the world. We come together to voice our shared concern for women and children who are exploited through surrogacy contract pregnancy arrangements.

Together we affirm the deep longing that many have to be parents. Yet, as with most desires, there must be limits. Human rights provide an important marker for identifying what those limits should be. We believe that surrogacy should be stopped because it is an abuse of women’s and children’s human rights.

Surrogacy often depends on the exploitation of poorer women. In many cases, it is the poor who have to sell and the rich who can afford to buy. These unequal transactions result in consent that is under informed if not uninformed, low payment, coercion, poor health care, and severe risks to the short- and long-term health of women who carry surrogate pregnancies.

The medical process for surrogacy entails risks for the surrogate mother, the young women who sell their eggs, and the children born via the assisted reproductive technologies employed. The risks to women include Ovarian Hyper Stimulation Syndrome (OHSS), ovarian torsion, ovarian cysts, chronic pelvic pain, premature menopause, loss of fertility, reproductive cancers, blood clots, kidney disease, stroke, and, in some cases, death. Women who become pregnant with eggs from another woman are at higher risk for pre-eclampsia and high blood pressure.

Children born of assisted reproductive technologies, which are usually employed in surrogacy, also face known health risks that include: preterm birth, stillbirth, low birth weight, fetal anomalies, and higher blood pressure. A surrogate pregnancy intentionally severs the natural maternal bonding that takes places in pregnancy—a bond that medical professionals consistently encourage and promote. The biological link between mother and child is undeniably intimate, and when severed has lasting repercussions felt by both. In places where surrogacy is legalized, this potential harm is institutionalized.

— Source: See here and here 

The fact that Pope Francis identifies "the West" as a particular zone of death and harm to human beings in all stages of their life corresponds with the unwillingness of people in Western (and WEIRD) countries to bow to God's law of human conduct, and particularly to accept that God has a plan for each person.

Instead, this is an age of bland consumerism that extends into all sectors of life, and the use of surrogacy denies that it is the human person's privilege to walk in step with Providence. Only inner pain is gained by trying to buck God's loving plan, demanding though it may be.

Finally, we can see in surrogacy another of those cases like the development of nuclear weapons where we have to say:  "We have the means to do it, but we should not do it!"  

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